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I Got Nothin!

Posted Monday, August 15, 2011, at 9:12 PM

There are days, when the world gets in your face and refuses to budge. All the positive things that you could possibly think to say are lost in the swirl of news, events and routines.

So many of us are more than willing to put in our two cents worth on any idea, comment or theory but few of us are able to sit back and allow a still quiet voice speak to us over the din of conversations.

Angry mobs are not just on the evening news, they are present in comments of blogs, news stories and organizations. Many of us continue to "buy" into the ending of the world, instead of changing the way we think in terms of our fellow man.

What if you were challenged to describe the present situation in today's news without mentioning names, political parties or members of the media? Or if you listened to several speeches without introduction as to the identity to of the speaker?

What if you were to read an article without a clue as to who had written it? Lets pretend that we are as blind as Lady Justice and listen to all of the arguments without the interference of sight or prior prejudice?

Right now, we are all milling around like angry bees in a beehive that that has been disturbed. We want to look for the culprit and hordes of us will fly in the direction that we think he has escaped. There is no purpose in this anger, only chaos.

We can reasonably state the obvious state of affairs, but the disagreement is where the blame lies or how we came to this sorry situation in the first place.

First: As humans, we tend to think a little too much of ourselves and our intelligence or be in awe of someone who seems to be more educated than we are. And then we begin to believe that we are better than God.

2nd: In the age of the internet, millions of facts and quotes are at our disposal almost instantaneously. And some of us use Google almost faithfully every day. But those facts are only as good as the people who have imputed them.

If you were to witness a traffic accident with 10 other people, there would be 11 versions as to what happened, the makes of car involved and who was at fault. Our tendency is to assume that everyone else has had the same experience and memory as you do.

3rd. Our lives have ceased to be dictated by doing the right thing, but doing what feels right to you. There is a big difference between the two.

4th: We have choices for how we respond to angry words, contempt or ridicule. Turning the other cheek is more than just a physical action. It is a conscious choice to take the higher road no matter how much you are provoked.

Life is not meant to be measured by blame or accusations. It is supposed to be filled with anticipation, wonder and love. And as a culture, we want that for everyone.

I believe that the reason for this is the instant gratification that we have been blessed and cursed with. We cannot have it all. We are not guaranteed a perfect life, nor should we expect a government to provide it for us.

When you have a barrel of apples and just one of them is rotten, it doesn't seem so bad. And so you let it remain, contending that you have the rest of the bushel to enjoy and consume. However, the entire bottom layer becomes rotten and the fruit flies are beginning to emerge.

By now, you are trying to get the rotten apples out, but by doing so, you have to put several of the goods ones aside too. Eventually, the rotten apples are gone, or so you think. But they have already contaminated the good apples in less obvious ways.

So lets think about a few things; Scientists do not agree about their each others theories; Doctors change their policies concerning health every 5 years or so, Biblical Scholars have not been able to agree on history or core beliefs for centuries.

The sky is falling. Global warming or political parties is not the cause of this, but people who make selfish choices every day. There are children who have no fathers, women who are abused and men who abuse their power. We have corporations and unions who no longer have a moral compass concerning their customer base or workers. We have "career" politicians who have lost their way in the muddy pond called Washington.

We see a land of excess and waste instead of a country that is United in Heart and Mind. We see our neighbors naked and ashamed. The price of living has inflated beyond the realm of goodness and mercy. Instead, it is pleasure that we seek instead of humility.

So when I said that I got Nothin! I meant that my fingers were not typing the words that I thought would be relevant. Life is meant to be spent honoring God and respecting each other. It is a much easier way to live.

Our code should be Joy. And most of you who believe in a Higher Power will recognize the order in which our life choices should be made.

If your life is in tatters, it is not the government's fault, your congressman or even your minister. It lies squarely on the person looking back at you in the mirror.

We cannot continue to lump everyone together and throw the mud indiscriminately. Instead, we must shake our neighbor's hand and find common ground. We must TREAT EACH OTHER with respect and love. And we must recognize that we cannot run on our own strength.

The true challenge is to recognize that we are nothing if our lives are empty or filled with anger and despair. Our words can be uplifting and insightful or derogatory. How we choose to make another person feel is a measure of our own compassion and empathy.

Throughout history, there have been great individuals who have inspired greatness. Do we inspire or do we condemn? As I write these blogs, I am more aware than ever the importance of intent, purpose and the proper use of words.

Three simple things have been impressed upon me. Respect, honor and love. When we lack these qualities, we are contributing to the chaos.

You must be vigilant in keeping the flower beds weed free and the trash from obstructing your view of the setting sun. Choose today where you want to be in the landscape of life. I know that I want to be as beautiful as a flower and and breathtaking as the sun setting in the horizon

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Great story and insights, Bonnie. Thanks for sharing...I hope others will read and appreciate.

I'm trying to do a bit of reading to catch up to your blogs....but not sure I will make it! I guess I have time,.....


-- Posted by jessiemiller on Mon, Aug 22, 2011, at 9:07 AM


Unfortunately, due to circumstances, I wasn't able to put my children in 4H. We did horses when I was growing up. I did take sewing and cooking for a year each.

My brothers had steers but by the time Bev and I got into 4H, Dad had reduced it to just horses.

I don't know if many people realize this, but Johnny Parke and Dad built a good portion of the fairgrounds. There used to be several stalls on the end by the entrance and a horse corral for all the events.

Dad was on the Fair Board for many years.

HewBet. There is no explanation needed if you have turned your life around and it sounds as though you have. Not everyone has to write about politics. You could just write about your kids.


it is actually me taking the picture. I loved the display and wanted to take a pic, so I did. Fortunately, I am only a shadow.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 8:50 PM

Nice writing as always .....Who's the person taking the picture in your picture? :)

Bonnie how about writing a story about 4 H ? Did any of your children raise a pig or cow to take to the fair? Or maybe when you were growing up you raised a farm animal?

I'd even welcome a story about chickens lol !

HewBet I hope they approve you to have a blog, I would love to read about what it was like living in Prison.... I'm sure there will be lots of questions asked :)

-- Posted by MsMarylin on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 5:29 PM

Thank you HewBet.

It is very strange how many new names are coming out of the woodworks. They are certainly challenging us to think and to grow.

So what does the world in general want to hear? More bad news? I think not. I am really thinking hard about something a little lighter for my next blog.

There are just so many animals that you can write about or ranch experiences. But I will put my thinking cap on and come up with something.

miss_kittylover. maybe you should write your own blog and what will your subject matter be? Will you be able to step gingerly over the cow patties and avoid getting your feet dirty from time to time.

HewBet, we might not always agree about things, in fact we are total opposites, but you are in need of an outlet of some kind and I am too.

Maybe I should write about my 2 Day pizza job.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 3:11 PM

Thank you Graphomanic for your kind words. I appreciate all input and I hope that I can come up with things that inspire people instead of make them discouraged.


My style of writing is not for everyone and certainly I get different interpretions of the meaning of my blogs. If it is not your cup of tea, thats okay. If you think that I am trying poke the bear and stir things up, you are mistaken.

But Walking the Fence line is a commentary about life and if I can describe it in a way that doesn't single anyone out or creates a divide, then my goal is accomplished. If it comes off preachy at times, well, I am not perfect and I most certainly don't have a journalism degree.

What I do have is a desire to help people see things differently and decide on a reasoned response. That include me.

We can be a blessing or a curse to those who know us. I am working towards being a blessing. You certainly gave me a great deal to think about today. Thank you.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 1:14 PM

KH Gal - I think your blog is insightful and well written. Thank you ~

-- Posted by Graphomaniac on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 11:45 AM

Insightful and well written. Thank you.

-- Posted by Graphomaniac on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 11:37 AM

Miss_Kitty Lover:

I am not sure if you understood my blog, but apparently I offended you in some way.

My observations are concerning the world at large, not this little blogging community.

I have never said that I was better than anyone else, only that I was realizing what is truly important.

life is too short to be so cutting and hateful. And we see many people who are that way simply because they have been given permission to.

It is your option to diagree with me, but please don't pile on the insinuation that I think that I am better than you. Because I don't.

We keep hurting each other and there is an anger that is like a wildfire in the world. My point to this blog is that we can re-think our priorities and our responses to each other.

So if you were offended, then I apologize to you, but my intention was a commentary of what is happening in the world, not Mt Home and bloggers.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Tue, Aug 16, 2011, at 10:03 AM

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