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The Reason for the Season.

Posted Saturday, December 8, 2012, at 7:31 AM

November 20-January 2 is my favorite part of the year.

People are a little less awful to each other during the holidays. All anyone wants to do is snuggle up with a hot beverage and a cozy blanket, surrounded by loved ones and watching all the feel good movies they can handle.

Man, is it time for me to get off work yet? I have a puppy at home to snuggle!

Anyway, with all this love and cheer around, I have a hard time seeing why people lose the magic of this month or so we have where love and happiness are forced down our throats every time we decide to wake up.

But people have. On my Facebook and Twitter feeds, I see many people exclaiming that Christmas just doesn't feel the same as an adult. They miss the magic they used to feel.

I'll be honest, Christmas did change for me. It changed when I was about 13.

But it wasn't because of presents, and it wasn't because I learned a particular secret about Christmas that makes it really neat for kids. (I won't spoil it here!)

It was because it finally hit me around that age what this season is supposed to represent. My parents tried to get me to see it as a kid. Even when we weren't well off, my parents insisted we pick a name off the Angel Tree every year. Honestly, it's one of those things I remember really well about Christmas as a kid (besides getting my dang hand stuck in my stocking...for some reason it had this mass of loose yarn in it and a chocolate always managed to fall to the end of it.).

Around that age, I had realized that the holidays weren't about gifts or different food (although I still REALLY REALLY love that part of the holidays. I could eat turkey and my mom's casserole for DAYS). They're about being thankful for your own blessings. Trust me, you have at least one thing to be thankful for. Think on it.

And then I joined the debate team in high school. Mr. Petti doesn't like to brag on it, but he has the team come up with a project every year for the holidays. It's his "final" for the semester.

He sparked something in me. I've told him and the team before how much being on the team changed my life. I don't think they'll be able to comprehend that ever. But in December 2007, I experience the true magic in giving, especially around the holidays.

If you've lost the magic, or you know someone who has, here is my no-fail list of ways to bring it back:

(Please keep in mind that I am not a trained medical professional)

1. Donate more than 99 cents to the Salvation Army bell ringers

Seriously, those people go nuts over cash. They are so happy. I always keep a couple bills in my wallet during the holidays so I can always put some in. Their smile alone puts warmth in my heart.

2. Adopt a kid on the angel tree

This is an especially awesome thing to do if you have your own kid as well. It might come as a shock, but if you sell how excited your angel kid will be to get presents on Christmas, it will probably excite your kid as well. You might end up with a shopping cart full of options because they'll get so excited. PLUS if you pay attention, you might get an idea of what your kiddo really wants for the holidays. It might not be on their list to Santa!

3. Donate food to a food pantry

I've mentioned that food is one of my favorite parts of the holiday season. Not everyone knows where their next regular meal will come from, let alone a holiday meal. Bring some staples to a pantry, then see if/when they'll be taking donations for perishable items like turkeys that will be given to or served to families on or around Christmas. Or ask a pastor at a church. They probably know of at least one family who's year would be made by the kindness of getting a Christmas dinner.

4. Take a lights walk with some hot chocolate

It's a dying art, but people do still decorate their homes. There are always a few families out looking at the lights as well. Need a little Christmas magic? Check out the wide eyes and big grins shining off their cute little heads.

5. Host or a small gift-exchange party.

Keep the gifts to a maximum price. Make it a dirty Santa. Or a white elephant exchange. Change your mind about skipping that silly neighborhood or office party. Picking out a zany item and waiting for someone to get it is exciting. I participated in a white elephant last Sunday. I found a two-pack of off-brand foam dart guns for under $5. Instant hit for all ages. I mean it. My mother and father would have had a great time with those things. Smiles all around, a little mischief with the stealing aspect of White Elephant. Instant fun.

These are just a few ideas, of course.

When you're losing that cheer, how do you get it back?

And now: picture time!

Mine and Ryan's first Christmas Tree together.

Jelly Bean in her Christmas sweater and bow

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Love your blog. Kids need some magic now and then. I think that adults get a little jaded, because they miss their own loved ones who have passed away. And some feel pressured to provide the best and most perfect Christmas ever.

I miss my dad, my friend Susan and my sister-in-law Diana, who passed away 4 years ago today.

I always appreciate your point of view. Thank you.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Sat, Dec 8, 2012, at 8:35 AM

Worth repeating

Christ is the reason for the season

Melodie, great blog.... Love it!

-- Posted by jessiemiller on Sat, Dec 8, 2012, at 9:17 AM

Jelly Bean looks cute in her Christmas Sweater and Bow.......... Cute dog with a Cute name!

You got the Magic.............. Keep it going ! :)

-- Posted by MsMarylin on Sat, Dec 8, 2012, at 10:08 AM


Very nice blog. I hope the season finds you well. Very pretty Christmas tree! I love the art in the background too. Congratulations on your first Christmas with Ryan. You are growing up before our eyes.

Merry Christmas Melodie and Ryan. This is my favorite time of the year as well. I love the crisp air and a nice cup of chai tea or hot chocolate with a friend. I love being out with my horses---they love the crisp winter air and are full of energy.

I hope you have a wonderful holiday! I believe in Santa (but I may be on the naughty list this year).

-- Posted by OpinionMissy on Sat, Dec 8, 2012, at 10:39 PM

All, thank you!

Ms. Lauric, thank you. Except for the red balls, the ornaments have passed through Ryan's family until his mom gve them to me two years ago, so it is especially meaingful thbat I get to use them this year!

Merry Christmas to you and your family as well!

-- Posted by lilmissmelmo on Sun, Dec 9, 2012, at 5:40 AM


The ornaments are so pretty. How nice that Ryan's mom has handed them down to you---I had to wait a long time for that (from my Grandma). You have inspired me to put up the "Chanukkah Bush" today (thank you). I hope you will continue to check in with us. I enjoy hearing about what you are doing. You are a very bright young lady! Thank you again for the great blog. Merry Christmas to you and Ryan! Be well Melodie.

-- Posted by OpinionMissy on Sun, Dec 9, 2012, at 11:25 AM

my grandma had a dog like that. We loved her. Dad would feed her table scraps when no one was looking. He didn't do that for all dogs, but she had a special spot in his heart.

-- Posted by KH Gal on Sun, Dec 9, 2012, at 11:51 AM

Oh that secret got to me when I was 9. But I was still excited to get gifts and play along with the Santa ruse until I was 13, since that was about when the rest of the kiddos knew. I was the oldest.

Beanie is actually very skinny, I just took that photo at a bad angle. She is pretty spoiled though!

-- Posted by lilmissmelmo on Sun, Dec 9, 2012, at 10:13 PM


Lurk enough and you will find yourself knit into the MHN community like the rest of us. I've only met a few of the bloggers in real life.

-- Posted by lilmissmelmo on Sun, Dec 9, 2012, at 10:16 PM

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